If you take the time to think about the 10 powerful thoughts below and put them into action every day, you can restore your Flame 💥instead of remaining a flicker.
This list is my Tough Cookie Cheat Sheet. I frequently use it to figure out who to spend my precious time with. If you have trouble figuring out who is telling you the truth, who will be there for you in times of sadness and trouble, or who you are like-minded with, this list is for you.

These thoughts work for personal and professional relationships.
Restore Your Flame To-Do List
- He or she who has nothing to hide–hides nothing.
- You knew who Pooty was when you first met Pooty. 🙃
- The truth of any person is in their actions and how their behavior makes you feel.
- The problem with always putting others first is you’ve taught them you come second.
- If you don’t control your own mind, someone else will. 😵
- You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
- If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit. 😴
- Employment comes and goes, people change, love hurts, things don’t go as you planned, friends leave, but remember, life goes on. 🌞
- What’s not taken care of falls apart.
- Be about your own business and Say No To Crap! ✖
BONUS: Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you would rather be talking.
Consider putting these 10 powerful thoughts to restore your flame where you will see them and apply them to your relationships as needed.
Happy Taking Control Of Your Joy & Life,

Diffently words to live by. My thoughts right now are healing my body so I can focus and better days ahead.
#4 really stood out to me. I think a lot of us have spent our lives putting other people first. In healthy relationships there is always room for two at the top. If not, you’re in the wrong relationship. That applies to all kinds of relationships. There can be established roles but each side needs to be equally valued, respected and heard.